Genesis 31:1-16 – Time to Go
Jacob’s increased flocks at Laban’s expense has not gone unnoticed, especially by his brothers-in-law who see Jacob gradually getting everything that should have come to them as an inheritance. The envy of these men and their accusations of Jacob stealing his wealth is finally seen by Jacob. He also realises that Laban himself is not treating Jacob the way he used to. All in all, Jacob can tell that a storm is brewing on the homefront – and he should know, having left a similar storm behind in Canaan. Deceptive behaviour can lead others to envy and hatred.
Jacob has come to Laban by orders from Heaven, and there he will stay until he is ordered back. But that time has come. God tells Jacob to return, promising to be with him. When we follow God’s guidance, we can be reassured of His care for us. God has noticed the hardships Laban has put upon Jacob, and God is the one who has blessed Jacob with wealth. God notices everything that happens to us, and He is constantly at work for our good. God reminds Jacob of the covenant promises that were made at Bethel, including the promise of the land of Canaan. The time has come for Jacob to return home.
Jacob doesn’t make a unilateral decision to return home. First, he consults his wives. This is really going to affect their lives, and as a loving husband, Jacob wants to know how they feel about it. He describes how he has faithfully treated Laban, and how Laban has responded in unfaithfulness. But his greatest argument for leaving must be the command of God to leave. Hearing all this and with some complaints of their own, Rachel and Leah agree that it is time to go.