Philemon 1:17-19 – The Basis For Forgiveness
Paul appeals that Philemon would forgive Onesimus because God has transformed Onesimus’ life. If the Gospel had not taken root in this man’s life, then Paul would have no basis to appeal to Philemon to forgive. But the Gospel has taken root in Onesimus’ life, powerfully so. Onesmius is changed, totally transformed. To nail it home, Paul appeals further, showing that Onesimus is now a brother in Christ. Another change has taken place in him: that of adoption. How can Philemon fail to forgive someone who is now in the family?
Paul appeals yet further in verses 17-19, acting as the mediator. Philemon will have been well aware that Paul is using the same sort of language that is used of Jesus Christ, the only mediator between God and man. Paul is purposely reminding Philemon of the Gospel, of Jesus Christ who paid all of Philemon’s debts, and who was the very basis that Philemon himself was accepted by God the Father as a justified man. Paul has chosen his words carefully.
The basis of forgiveness is always the Gospel. Just as we love because He first loved us, so too we forgive because He forgave us first. The one who realises just how much he has been forgiven will forgive much. If you don’t understand the Gospel, you can never really forgive others. People in the world hold grudges. It is very easy to hold a grudge. But we are not to be like that. We are to be like Jesus, who forgave. Jesus forgave Peter who had denied Him. Jesus forgives Christians for their sins against Him. So if you find yourself in dispute with a fellow Christian, look to the Gospel first. Don’t even begin to deal with that person until you have thought about how you have wronged the very God who saved you. It is Gospel thinking that will enable the problem to be addressed appropriately.
Questions
- Why should Philemon forgive Onesimus?
- In what way does God forgive us?
Prayer Points
- Pray that you would be quick to forgive.
- Use prayer points from your congregation.
- Pray for family matters.