Philemon 1:20-25 – The Benefit in Forgiveness
What does the book of Philemon teach to those people who have been wronged and offended by others? It teaches you first of all to look to the Gospel. See that enemy, or rival as someone whom Christ has saved. They are members of the same family that you are a member of because of the same Gospel by which you have been saved. Accept as well that just as Onesimus did not have to earn Philemon’s forgiveness, so too you cannot make that person who has offended you earn your forgiveness. Did God make you earn His forgiveness? By no means! and you should be thankful for that, for you would still be dead in your sins. So when that person comes to you seeking your forgiveness, forgive them because Christ has forgiven you. Even before they seek you for forgiveness, seek them, because Christ sought you while you still were running from Him. And realise as well that by forgiving that brother in Christ, you are refreshing the hearts of the saints. You are promoting the peace of the Church. That is a great thing.
What does the book of Philemon teach those who have offended others and who need forgiveness? It teaches you that you cannot earn forgiveness. If you have wronged a brother in Christ, you don’t deserve their forgiveness, but because of what Christ has done to them, they can forgive you. And realise as well just how difficult it is for them to forgive you. The Gospel tells us that our forgiveness cost God His one and only Son. Forgiveness is not a light thing.
What does the book of Philemon teach those who are mediators, who are the go-betweens? It is always difficult being in the middle of a dispute. But if you find yourself there, you can know that there is refreshment for you when reconciliation is won the proper way.
Questions
- What is the benefit of forgiveness?
- Why should we forgive others?
Prayer Points
- Pray for the preaching and hearing of God’s Word tomorrow.
- Use prayer points from your congregation.
- Pray for family matters.